Cliff’s Bench

Cliff and I talked about finding the perfect spot in the hills around Thousand Oaks to dedicate a bench, so that the kids and I would always have a spot to go and “be with” him. After a number of emails and phone calls and a meeting with Ranger Bruce out on the trail, we found the perfect spot, and the bench is now installed! It’s got a beautiful view overlooking the Conejo Valley, and it’s right next to our “Picnic Rock”, a place we always hiked to with breakfast burritos when the kids were young. It’s about a 15 minute hike from the trail head at the corner of Westlake Blvd and Autumn Ridge Dr, in the Lang Ranch Open Space. If you’re in the neighborhood, go enjoy the view and say hi to Cliff.

love, Tracey


Cliff's Bench
bench location

17 comments

  1. Steve Sereboff's avatar
    Steve Sereboff · · Reply

    Hey buddy. Good to hang out. Sitting on your bench I think of the fragility of life and the beauty of life. I’m so sorry to have shared the fragility of life with you but even happier to have shared the beauty of life with you.

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    Steve Sereboff · · Reply

    Hard to believe it’s been two months. I really miss Cliff, as must the hundreds who attended or wished to attend the memorial. This morning I set out to visit the bench. From the Autumn Ridge trailhead, it’s easy to find. Instead I rchose the hard way, riding up the mountain from Oak Park and across the open space for a few hours until I found it. Incredible day. Sun was shining. Everything was so green. It’s a perfect spot and, now that I know where it is, I’ll surely visit it often. When I go, maybe I’ll see someone I know there: great seeing Arman and Tracey! B’shert.

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  3. bokkiearenstein's avatar

    This is a beautiful spot. Thank You for sharing this with us. We will always honor Cliff’s memory. Still surreal 😦 May you Tracey, your kids and all Cliff’s loved ones find inner peace and strength back into the light.

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    karenycrystal · · Reply

    Dear Tracey, What a beautiful way to remember Cliff and always keep him with you.  May you always be comforted by your special place designed by you and Cliff.  Thinking of you and the whole family Love always, Karen and Howard Crystal

    Sent on the new Sprint Network from my Samsung Galaxy S®4.

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  5. Leslie DeVore's avatar
    Leslie DeVore · · Reply

    What an incredible spot. Tom and I think of your family so often. Perhaps sometime soon, we will pay you a visit and hike the area to say hello to our friend Cliff. Much love.

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  6. Bonnie & Harry's avatar
    Bonnie & Harry · · Reply

    Thank you Tracey, The Vandenbergs will bring a visit to our friend Cliff and enjoy your family’s beautiful gift, such a stunning way to be remembered

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  7. Sue Sommers's avatar
    Sue Sommers · · Reply

    I hiked Lang Ranch this morning. I can’t wait to go back there to see the bench and say hi to Cliff.

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  8. Wilma and Alan's avatar
    Wilma and Alan · · Reply

    Dear Tracey and kids. How fabulous for all of you to be able to go to a favorite spot and share all you wonderful memories together. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
    with love,

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  9. leahdavida's avatar

    I love it and can’t wait to go for a walk with you guys!

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  10. Flora Mason's avatar
    Flora Mason · · Reply

    Dear Tracey, Thank you for this note showing me the location of Cliff’s bench. It’s a beautiful spot and view. The photo allows me to place myself there, and in my mind to place Cliff there enjoying the view.

    With love, Flora

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  11. chris andersen's avatar
    chris andersen · · Reply

    Beautifully eloquent,
    Love,
    Chris & Nikki

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  12. Chrissi Chrovian's avatar
    Chrissi Chrovian · · Reply

    That’s so beautiful. What a peaceful spot. Lovely gesture Tracey. Rip Cliff

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  13. Trisha & Greg's avatar
    Trisha & Greg · · Reply

    It’s Just Beautiful Tracey. Love You. XO

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  14. Mary NC's avatar

    It’s just perfect, Tracey. We will definitely come and visit Cliff soon.❤️

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  15. Gregg B.'s avatar
    Gregg B. · · Reply

    I am so happy that they where able to get this done so quickly. Can’t wait to go there and spend some time with my friend.

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  16. Beverly's avatar

    The view is wonderful. I can see Cliff setting there eating breakfast with three little ones running around. Love to you. I think about you and Cliff every day. It was a sad day when John called with the news.

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  17. The Farkas Family's avatar
    The Farkas Family · · Reply

    We can’t wait to visit Cliff. Thanks for sharing. We hope the family is doing well. We think of you often. Sending you our love.

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